I don’t mean I only like guys if these are true, I mean these traits will make me fall for you a lot harder and a lot faster (which usually never ends well).

• freckles are adorable
• brunettes and gingers
• if you can sing
• if you can play piano/guitar/banjo/pretty much any instrument and sing at the same time (doesn’t have to be a good voice either)
• raspy singers
• soft singers
• when boys are awkward
• if they know how to entertain kids
• collar bones are nice
• not being to forward
• knowing how to be a gentleman
• being my best friend
• knowing how to make me laugh when I’m down
• not trying to put off a certain image

I don’t know. I just really wanted to type this up. There’s been so much on my mind lately. Half of me is terrified to be alone with a guy no matter how close we are, because I don’t want for anything to go futher than it did on Monday if it happens again. Half of me just wants to trust a guy so I can prove to myself that situations like that don’t normally happen. No, he didn’t take my virginity, but he took my innocence. I’ve always been pretty naive with guys. My chest and rear are not something that anyone can touch. If I had a boyfriend I wouldn’t want him to touch them. I perceive them as my virginity, no one has the right to come up and touch or grab them unless we’ve said out vows. Maybe you think I’m too strict, but it’s how I am. Anyways, I wanted to type this up to see good traits in a guy. Traits I like and that I find in close friends. Friends that I trust, but am now more cautious around. I don’t want to block contact, but I’m just more nervous than I’d like to be.